Posts Tagged ‘birth’

What About the Birth-Mother? – “It’s about goddamn time.”

Friday, March 20th, 2009

[I]f we’re going to have a seemingly neverending discussion about the sorrow and remorse caused by abortion, then it is about goddamn time that we hear from birth mothers too.

If that got your attention, and I hope it did, then you should read one of the best articles I’ve read this year, Breaking the Silence: On Living Pro-Lifers’ Choice for Women, at Shakesville.

I cannot do it enough justice by talking about it here. It’s both a story and a plea from a woman who has endured an abortion as well as given up a child for adoption. Her writing brings to light an issue I’ve never before heard discussed — why is so much attention and care paid to post-abortive women while apparently absolutely no real attention is paid to post-adoptive mothers? If you’re an advocate for women’s rights, or you’re just curious or pissed off about the abortion debate, this is a uniquely informative must-read article.

Chisel and Slate

Wednesday, March 11th, 2009

Born All with the same
Tabula Rasa, the slate,
Clean and without Form.

Chisels are handed
By the Fates of our Birthplace
To our Craving Hands.

When we Realize this,
We can Question our Chisels.
We can Replace them.

Rachel Maddow Gives Props to FSM on Darwin Day

Thursday, February 12th, 2009

Rachel Maddow celebrated Darwin Day tonight by calling the FSM movement a “perfectly brilliant challenge” to the popular idea that the Christian god created everything (i.e., the assertion that religion needs to be taught alongside science). She noted that when creationism (or “intelligent design“) was being proposed as something that needed to be taught in schools, the “inventor” of the Flying Spaghetti Monster, Bobby Henderson, challenged the Kansas State Board of Education. Henderson stated that if creationism were to be taught, then the scriptural basis for creation showing that the Flying Spaghetti Monster created everything ought to be taught, as well, and that it would be offensive if the teaching weren’t done in proper Church of the FSM garb — full pirate regalia.

Maddow also cited the 39% of Americans believing in evolution Gallup poll (25% not believing in evolution) before interviewing Edward Larson, Pepperdine University (affiliated with the Churches of Christ) Law Professor, who stated, “If people are given the choice between God and Darwin, most of them will choose God.”

Rachel, you rock.


Happy Darwin Day

Thursday, February 12th, 2009

Exclamation Point.

Charles Darwin

It’s Darwin’s birthday. And Lincoln’s. And the birthday of this guy at work named Steve.

Happy Birthday.

I was never much into celebrating birthdays, or anything, really. But Darwin (and Lincoln) is worth it.

You want to do something to celebrate? Go out, drink, and thank Darwin for your opposable thumbs, because without Darwin, we’d be…. well, the same, but at least he brought “Why” to our attention such that the answer does not include “Goddidit.” Yay, Darwin!

For my celebration, I’ve been reading On the Origin of Species. You can, too. For Free! From Project Gutenberg.

Here it is!

I downloaded it, tweaked it a bit for better viewing, and uploaded it to my Blackberry Storm, and I read it on the Metro.

Life is Like a Poker Tournament

Wednesday, December 31st, 2008

You arrive into the world pink, naked and squalling. You are immediately in possession of a ‘hand’. The hand was dealt to you at birth or even earlier – at sperm and egg fusion. You had no choice in the deal, no control over the cards. You are black, white, yellow, red, or some other racial mixture. You have the genetic propensity to be smart or not, tall or short, fat or thin, strong or weak, sickly, or hale. Some of these factors can be overcome with effort; some of them are beyond your influence or perception (if severely retarded, you may not realize how handicapped you are). You are not a set of jokers or wild cards, but a set hand; the suits and denominations determined by the genetic material and womb conditions as contributed by your parents.

Beyond the intrinsic value of the ‘hand’ you are dealt, there is the ‘lay of the table’. You are born into an environment not of your choosing, around people with various ‘hands’. The cards around the table are randomly dealt to those people as well, just like the ones you are holding. You may be holding a pair of aces, but there are straights, flushes and full houses sitting in the seats around you. Conversely, you may be holding two pair and have the highest hand around. Your environment sets the bar of achievement and that is beyond your influence as well.

As you age, you can improve your position by ‘playing’ your hand. You can accumulate chips, which are the equivalent of wealth, power and influence. Or you can sit at the table and try to exist off the generosity of others. There is no re-deal, although, with considerable effort, you can improve your cards to some degree. This can allow you to more easily increase your chip count.

There is a set of rules at the poker tables that needs to be followed. Some of the rules have minor punishments. One punishment might be the loss of some of your chips. Other rules have much more serious consequences if broken. The breaking of the serious rules can result in meeting the one player that sits at every table and in every room. This player holds the highest hand of them all, and he never loses. Ever.

The player at all of the tables who never loses is called mortality. He is indiscriminate and ruthless. He is beating hands and cleaning people out at many tables, all at the same time. Sometimes entire rooms fall at once, in a single instant, the chips scattering around the room or disappearing with the losing hands.

So you sit and play and try to accumulate the most chips. And you try to win the most hands. You work at improving your position. Maybe you try and move to a higher-ranking table. You also try to develop your hand as much as you can to increase your chances. All the while, in the back of your mind, you realize that mortality is sitting at the table with you. And one day while you are trying to bluff another player by going ‘all-in’, mortality will call your bluff and win – every time.

-Noumenon